My S.I.L. Erin put on her blog the other day about being a Mom...something little that each of the kids did that summed up why we put up with the everyday...well this inspired me....just this morning Gabe did something that helped me to realize...I'm probably not doing a half bad job at this Mom thing!
Okay I can't for the life of me sum anything up quick....so,bear with me! This past week the 3 of us...Gabe, Shawn and myself, all worked on his States of Matter science project. Gabe did all of the leg work, but Shawn was the fact checker and I was the poster helper girl. His poster looked fantastic...he did get A LOT of experience making posters last year for 3rd grade...so he is sort of a pro, but nonetheless...it was awesome! Okay, so on the way to school this morning...it was due this morning...I asked him if everything was still holding on okay...he said it was and that he was really happy with the way it turned out, especially after seeing some of his fellow classmates. He said he couldn't figure out why some of the kids just did it in pencil or used a shoe box, so I told him that not all parents have the time to help their kids. And I proceeded to tell him that God gave us them to take care of here on Earth...that we only have a short time to get all of the important life lessons crammed in and we are doing our best...in hopes that someday, they can look back and see that we weren't half bad and maybe even like us a little. And do you know what Gabe said....I already know how lucky I am to have you as parents...and I think you are doing a great job and I already do like you! I just looked straight ahead...tears rolling down my cheeks and told him I Loved Him....how did I get so lucky? For me, this morning was a fantastic reminder of why I do 20 loads of laundry a week, clean their bathroom, play taxi to the umpteen events each of them have, and volunteer like a crazy lady.....I only have these precious boys for a short time.....and, it seems like , at least today, I may know what I'm doing!